the phrase "PAM is hell", we dont have to keep it that way, if we're able to not become to spiteful against each other, we can change the phrase to "Pam is great!" or something like that. sure, there are trolls and stuff but with the people that actually care about others here, that is something we can change. nobody has to leave, only if they want to by choice. of course people may not want them to leave but we should respect them of that. we should respect everyone here that we care about