Because I know how both sides of this feel. I`ve repeated these words 10 thousand times. I`ve said it before, I`ll say it again. I may seem like a huge jerk when I say it but it`s the truth and the truth sounds harsh. If someone won`t listen, then you have to make them listen. People have a tendency to be soft snowflakes that want white lies and sugar coated truths. But if they keep getting that shit they won`t learn. -BD