i think the first step to being more comfortable with your identity, both on a personal and social scale, is realizing that it isn't as important as you make it out to be. in reality living happily means you don't focus on an arbitrary part of yourself like what body types or genders you like because its just another simple fact like your favorite color or the color of your skin. focusing too hard on any small aspect leads to echo chambers of self doubt and worry and stress, so the initial step is just realizing that hey, this is just me, and theres nothing much more too it then that, now let me go think about something else like what i'm gonna do with friends this weekend.

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