It can be hard to get adjusted to somebody you don't know. Especially if they seem to suddenly fill a spot that you were certain belonged to someone else. But at least you know how tough things can be for him, and you want him to be happy. That's the most important thing. And we all get self-centered once in a while, it's part of being human. Or... actually, I have no idea what you'd classify as, with T being a machine and all. Not the point. Just because you feel a little conceited doesn't mean you're a bad person.