Reddit, I just beat my boyfriend over the head wth a wooden 2x4. Am I in the wrong? I (24 F) have been dating my boyfriend (23 M) for 4 years now. A few weeks ago was our anniaversary, which he FORGOT. The week before I told him to start planning something for our anniaversary, but he never did. Take note of the fact that he has great memory, and usually doesn't forget these types of events. Am I in the wrong?