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d2509e Yes pepper i view dating culture as immoral and something to avoid i wonder how you came to this conclusion

b234bc Then under this lens you view almost every human being on the planet earth as someone to be wary of and that's insanity

fb3c0a ok but when does it cycle back again to " do you want to watch me play Undertale". or does it end like this

d2509e Amazing result pepper now you know why we shouldnt be normalizing an unhealthy mechanism and instead fixing the original cause of that mechanism

b234bc "You don’t figure anything out yourself" Great you understand that you need things to learn

702957 nvm, imma go play l4d and just stop spectating until the dust settles.

d2509e No pepper my point is dating to figure yourself out is wrong and if its because you never learnt that stuff as a kid then we shouldnt be normalizing the dating to figure yourself out and instead fix the learning it as a kid

702957 You guys are way off track regardless. Besides, you guys are wasting each other's time with arbitrary ideas to outsmart the other.

d2509e You don’t figure anything out yourself pepper if you have a bad home enviornment you grow up with bad ideals if you have a good home enviornment you grow up with good ideals and your following enviornments determine your experiences and mindsets.

b234bc are we about to go back onto the asexual people shouldnt be dating route

d2509e And yes using relationships to “develop” emotional awareness is a dysfunctional and unhealthy process

b234bc If there is SPARSE good enviroments what are they supposed to do other than figure it out thereself

d2509e Tell me pepper what should we see as normal and try to normalize; imperfect dysfunctional coping mechanisms for when there is a bad home environment, or healthy functional coping mechanisms for when there is a bad home enviornment.

b234bc Which is basically no one

d2509e Then that person lives a shittier life than someone who does

702957 I think we should go back to Ancient Rome.

b234bc And no you're not blaming it on poly ideologies

b234bc But there isn't, now what?

702957 "Youth is wasted on the young,"

d2509e Im not saying someone should choose to grow up in a good enviornment because thats impossible and stupid i’m saying there SHOULD be a good environment in the first place and allow for emotional intellect to be established

021ac0 That's under the assumption that their parents have a healthy relationship in the first place. That's not always the case.

b234bc And it shouldnt because childhood is ass

d2509e Literally almost all of your ideals and values stem from your childhood social sphere pepper

b234bc “You dont need to learn through experience you should just grow up in a perfect environment instead.” People learn by doing. Thats literally how growth works. You can’t “think” your way into understanding connection you experience it, you mess up, you learn.

d2509e If a child matures in an environment with emotionally intelligent adults that communicate openly, healthy relationships that show mutual respect and empathy, moral guidance that values honesty, responsibility, and compassion, they will literally grow up knowing what they value and what they want from people in a relationship.

b234bc Finding out what you want out of a relationship without ever being in one is nigh impossible

702957 Uh, the arguement is really cool and very interesting to the RP channel.

d2509e That was a response to your previous post, and yes pepper its much more healthy and much more possible for someone to figure out what they value, want, and need in a relationship, without going through relationships to understand it, and instead via growing up in an enviornment modeled by healthy emotional behavior and moral balance.

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b234bc when you're in a understanding whats going on competition and your opponent is sc

b234bc No because it not being for you does not equivilate to "dating a boy is ok or not"

fb3c0a both of you lost your way when it drifted from Undertale to polyamory vs other relationships 💀💀💀

d2509e Yes pepper good job you identified the reason why polyamory is not something that should be dived into as readily as one on one relationships

b234bc There's a difference between thinking dating a boy is okay and if its for you

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021ac0 No, this is actually quite tame as compared to the political discussions that happen for most families at thanksgiving. Especially when the two sides of the family have differing political ideologies, like mine does.

d2509e Did you know that growing up with the idea that dating a boy is normal and okay is much more affective than dating a boy then breaking up with them when it comes to developing emotional awareness in terms of whether dating a boy is ok or not

b234bc It's more difficult because it needs more people to be mature and patient and that's all

702957 ffs, this is worse then thanksgiving politics at the dinner table

b234bc No? I experiment as in I try different things like dating a boy, this does relate to gaining emotional intelligence as that just comes from relationships in general,

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